Editor’s Note: The following article is written by Yamaris Dujmic, founder of Sweet Sol Photo, a Queens-based photography company known not only for its vibrant visual storytelling but also for its commitment to community. As the mother of a child with special needs, she is an advocate for inclusivity and often leads initiatives that celebrate and support children of all abilities—especially during Autism Awareness Month.
With the holiday season on the horizon, Yamaris shares heartfelt insight on how families can create a Halloween that’s both joyful and inclusive for everyone.
by Yamaris Dujmic
Autism comes in many forms, and as Halloween approaches it’s so important to understand how an autistic child may experience the holiday. I’m a mama to an autistic, nonverbal child, and I know firsthand that holidays can be hard for our families.
Like all kids, autistic children experience Halloween with a mix of excitement, curiosity, and sometimes overwhelm. Crowds, costumes, bright lights, and loud sounds can be a lot. As parents, it can be tough to pull back from the “traditional” expectations of trick-or-treating or parties — but our children’s comfort and safety matter most.
Tips to make Halloween easier for sensory-sensitive kids:
Trick-or-treat early. Heading out before it gets dark or crowded can reduce sensory overload.
Skip the party if needed. Instead, create a cozy sensory-friendly Halloween at home with dimmed lights, low music, and your child’s favorite treats or activities.
Blue pumpkin pails. These buckets help signal to candy givers that a child may be autistic, older than expected for trick-or-treating, or need a little extra patience.
Social stories. Start a week or two before Halloween to help your child understand what to expect. These short stories or visuals can make new situations feel predictable and less scary.
Nonverbal communication cards. For nonverbal kiddos, carrying a small card or badge that says something like, “I’m nonverbal. Happy Halloween!” can help candy givers understand why your child may not say “Trick or treat” or “Thank you” but is still excited to participate.
Whether you’re an autistic family looking for ways to enjoy Halloween or someone hoping to better understand families with different needs, these small steps can make the holiday more inclusive for everyone. Together, we can create a Halloween where all kids feel seen, supported, and celebrated.
